Saturday, January 31, 2009
When everything wasn't working out
But, I have to clear up the mess. I did everything I can to fix it. Since the mess is related to me dearly, I don't mind clearing it up. I finally got a reliable help to clear up the mess. Now, you're complaining.
You don't expect the mess to be cleared up flawlessly. If you're so great, I don't see you doing anything to prove it.
Blame yourself for relying too much on others!!! You should know these basic things. Don't blame me when it's not my fault. I'm not a scapegoat!!! ARGHHH!!!
And also your sidekick!!! I used to wonder how can both of you be stuck together.. Now, I can see why both of you are match made in heaven!!! ANNOYING!!!
*it's a pity we can't decide which family we want to be born into*
HAPPY BIRTHDAY SHAL!!!
And not fogetting, the cake~~~
Delinda and me, miss you gurl~~~
Sindhu and Lynn~~~ Master posers.. HAHA
Whee~~~ Hug Teddy Bear~~
Sindhu and Shal... <333
Will be missing you all~~~
Computer Revived~~~
But, I'm not taking blame for the virus attack because I'm damn sure it's not my fault. I didn't visit any unreliable websites. Unless you're telling me that facebook got problem??? So, at 2++ a.m. at night, Ken messaged Gong Xi Fa Cai message to me. >.<"... I straightaway asked him to help. He said either format or ignore. ZZZZ... Then, i messaged Ching Yong. He was very kind. Helping me.. Offering choices on formatting it or updating my anti-virus software and then scan the computer again. At least i don't feel so helpless. Then, I messaged my dai lou - Leong Kar Seng. He said Trojan will spread, so the best way is to format the PC. Being a pro in computer plus APIT student, I surrendered my computer to him on the second day of Chinese New Year.
It was 5 hours of formatting. The formatting process was fast, but backing up the files is a real pain. Zzzz... Dai Lou also said that Norton is unreliable especially for a low RAM comp like mine. Zzzz.. And now, my computer has a new anti-virus program. Yeah!!! Avast! Really thank you dai lou!!! Despite the New Year, you still helped me. I'm really grateful. And now, my computer is up and running. Phew.. What a relief!!!
Anyway, Dai Lou has changed a lot. Not so foul-mouthed anymore. More patient. A good change overall. And my mum would probably say, more leng zhai. Hahaha... I'm also glad that he's got a very loving girlfriend now.
Anyway, to readers.. If you guys have any computer related problem... Or need help in web page designing, do leave by a message and I'll contact him. His blog has expired... So, can't post the link here. >.<"""...
Today More Than Yesterday
This is a really nice song. I got this video when Ken was infatuated by this song a month ago. He was googoogaga over it telling me that the MV is so touching. So, to silence him, I just went and had a look. The MV was ok lar... And I told him that. He was kind of mad at me. Haha.. However, i really like the arrangement of the music and the lyrics especially. Honestly, it's really hard to sing Korean songs. XD
Today More Than Yesterday - Kim Jong Kook
(I Do) yeongwonhi dan hansaramman barabolsu innayo
(I Do) na jasinboda akkil su innayo
(I Do) geu nuga naege mureodo daedaphal su isseoyo
(I Do) naui sarang geudaejyo...
Yaksokhaji anheulkkeoyeyo
Haengyeo jamsirado heundeullilkkeoramyeon
Sijakhaji anhayo
Simjangdo da gochyeojul saramimyeon
Eojeboda oneuldeo manhi saranghamnida.
Apeudorok sojunghan saram cheoeumimnida.
Geudael mannaryeogo ireoke haengbokharyeogo
Manhido apanna bomnida.
Himdeun naldo seulpeohaeyo
Nunmul meotjiannneun geu apeumdo eonjenganeun kkeutnajyo
Kkeuchi eomneun geoseun uri sarangppun
Eojeboda oneul deo manhi saranghamnida.
Apeudorok sojunghan saram cheoeumimnida.
Geudael mannaryeogo ireoke haengbokharyeogo
Manhido apanna bomnida.
Dubeon dasineun hago sipji anhayo
Heeojineun il
Geudael mannagil wihan heeojim aniramyeon
Eonjekkajina
Beokchaoneun gaseumi teojilgeotman gataseo
Nae nunape geudaega kkumingeotman gataseo
Dallyeoga sumswineun geudaereul pume anayo
Maeumeul nonneun babomnida
Eojeboda oneuldeo manhi saranghamnida
Apeudorok sojunghan saram cheoeumimnida
Geudael mannaryeogo ireoke haengbokharyeogo
Manhido apanna bomnida.
Sunday, January 25, 2009
Fuuny Videos???
For those who don't understand cantonese, I'm really sorry... >.<
5T 2007 Reunion
When I reached, I went around Times Square to find the Bowling Alley. It took me another 10 minutes finding for that place. I'm kind of blur when it comes to Times Square... or any place actually. Finally!!! When I found that place... *handphone message beeps*
Message from Bavani: Chris, come to the main entrance.
WARGH!!! After 10 minutes of walking around the place. Geez... It's ok. I onli have myself to blame for being so blur and for being late. When i reached the main entrance, I saw a group of people posing and taking pictures. Haha... I guessed it was them and BINGO~~~
There was loadsa hugs and chattering. I really missed them. Bavani really changed a lot and I was teasing her about her hair. I wanted so badly to reverse the time.. But, it's impossible. It's so much fun being younger and in school. With those school friends. Sharing the moments together.
There were a few latercomers.. Fawn, Valerie and Mary. Haha... Valerie was the first one to open her big mouth and start a friendly argument with me. She's more filled out now. Haha... And she's going to Melbourne, Aussie next month. Oh boy, I'm really going to miss her.
After hugging and updating each other on our lives, we went to NEWS KTV... Onli 21 years and above is allowed to enter. And we got in. So.. I'm just wondering.. Am I supposed to be happy that I look older than my actual age??? LOL...
And thus... The pictures...
And we managed to celebrate Mary's birthday. Belated one. HAPPY 19TH BIRTHDAY MARY~~~
I had to leave early at around 7 p.m... And again, Valerie is the last to have another friendly argument with me. XD... After so long of not meeting them, today is a really memorable day. I'll sure miss them. Take care~~~
Sunday, January 18, 2009
Something about me. How True??? Hmm...
Your view on yourself:
You are down-to-earth and people like you because you are so straightforward. You are an efficient problem solver because you will listen to both sides of an argument before making a decision that usually appeals to both parties.
The type of girlfriend/boyfriend you are looking for:
You like serious, smart and determined people. You don't judge a book by its cover, so good-looking people aren't necessarily your style. This makes you an attractive person in many people's eyes.
Your readiness to commit to a relationship:
You prefer to get to know a person very well before deciding whether you will commit to the relationship.
The seriousness of your love:
Your have very sensible tactics when approaching the opposite sex. In many ways people find your straightforwardness attractive, so you will find yourself with plenty of dates.
Your views on education:
Education is very important in life. You want to study hard and learn as much as you can.
The right job for you:
You have plenty of dream jobs but have little chance of doing any of them if you don't focus on something in particular. You need to choose something and go for it to be happy and achieve success.
How do you view success:
You are afraid of failure and scared to have a go at the career you would like to have in case you don't succeed. Don't give up when you haven't yet even started! Be courageous.
What are you most afraid of:
You are afraid of having no one to rely on in times of trouble. You don't ever want to be unable to take care of yourself. Independence is important to you.
Who is your true self:
You are mature, reasonable, honest and give good advice. People ask for your comments on all sorts of different issues. Sometimes you might find yourself in a dilemma when trapped with a problem, which your heart rather than your head needs to solve.
Sunday, January 11, 2009
Embrace The New Year of 2009
Taggy~
Tagged by: Sunny Ooi~~~
I tag :
1. Victor
2. Lynnett
3. Brandon
4. Yoke Ha
5. Benson
6. Sunny
7. Choo
8. Bloody Prince Ken
9. Yin
10. Makky
#1 You know 1? ~Like... duh...
#2 What would you do if 3&4 dated you?
~omgomg!!! Lol.. one is my lil' marshmallow son and another is my gal friend. Now, that would be interesting? Lol!!!
#3 Would 5 & 6 make a good couple?
~Erh... Benson & Sunny??? Gosh... they seem to get along well as buddies. Couple.. ermmm...
#4 Do you think 7 is attractive?
~Hell.. yeah. LOL. in a special way.
#5 Do you know anything about 8's family?
~Erm.. not really.
#6 Tell me something about 9
~She's super cute. And I really doubt whether her face will change with time. Hahaha..
#7 What language does 2 speaks?
~Various... Namely: English, Cantonese, Mandarin, Malay, a bit of hokkien, VERY VERY lil' of japanese. LOL
#8 Who is 3 going out with?
~he's single!!! All gals out there~~~ He's a good catch.
#9 How old is 4?
~18.. sometimes 81, sometimes 9.. Hehx
#10 When was the last time u talk to 5?
~Friday. And we talked a LOT~~~
#11 Who is 6's favourite singer?
~Don't know. Sorry Sunny. I don't know are a fan of musics.
#12 Would you date 7?
~If I switch gender??? erh.. no comments. XD
#13 What is 9's last name?
~Ee Yin
#14 Would you consider being in a relationship with 1?
~I don't think it needs to be considered. XD
#15 Which school does 2 goes to?
~Taylor's College.
Friday, January 02, 2009
Happy Birthday Bro~~~
1 November 1994 was the day when the Gods and Devils witnessed another usual occurence---birth!!! However, this one of the many births that they witnessed is THE birth that changed my life forever. My 4 years of being the only daughter of the family has ended and it's time to welcome a new being into the family---my BROTHER. Me and my brother always fight non-stop as how it is in every family. But, I've never regretted his presence in my household. As years grow, me and my bro start to have a strong bond between us. At least for me. It is a blessing having him around. As the older sister, i even relied on him... Only on occassions. The older he gets, the more wise he, as well as I becomes. I hope with him turning 14 on 1 November 2008, he'll become a wiser person. Not to mention all the happiness be with him. A few pics we took when we went to this awesome Thai seafood palace in sg. Buloh!!!
The 2 Thai coconuts me & my bro had~~~ XD
TOM YAM steamboat kind of thing. REALLY NICE!!!
Then, it's time to seek adventure... Outdoors~~~
A scenery I find nice from the top of a stairs of the palace-ey restaurant~~~
Birthday boy posing on the stairs
Abortion of a Down Syndrome Child is Not Right
My first reason for saying that it is not right to abort a Down syndrome child is simply because the child is a human. Research shows that 40% of parents terminate their pregnancy when the child is diagnosed with Down syndrome. Does having Down syndrome make the child any less human and thus does not deserve a life on earth? The child is also like any other child and deserves love, respect and dignity. Some of you might say “aborting the child is better than sending him to a living hell on earth as they will not be able to cope with the society”. How sure are you about it? The child is not a marionette where you can gain control with a few pull of strings. You don’t know how he feels. He might want to come to this world and experience the ups and downs of life. Kathryn Lynard Soper, mother of a Down syndrome child had fears of their happiness when her first Down Syndrome child was born. Moreover, his health was unstable. However the more time she spent with him, the more she thinks of him as a cute baby. As his health stabilized and the more she got to know him as a person, she began to be excited that he was there and the fear slowly vanished. She began to have a beautiful experience. If you ask her if she is happy, she will answer you with a resounding “YES!” and adds that we will be happy if we choose to be.
Moving on to my second point which is on the responsibility of parents. Parents should be responsible for their own creation. Every pregnancy has its risks and Down Syndrome is one of them. If you’re not prepared to face the risks, then you should be more careful not to get pregnant. A Down Syndrome child just need a little more attention, patience and effort to take care of. Please do not give the three words excuse which are “not enough time”. Every God’s creation is entrusted with 24 hours a day and if other mothers can do it, why can’t you? For example, a couple in Colorado insisted on giving birth to a Down Syndrome child whom they named Jacob. They never regretted giving birth to him. In addition to that, they are leading a happy and normal life. The couple did try for a second child but never succeeded. They say that Jacob is a blessing and if they had aborted him, they would be left with nothing now. The mother also quoted Pope John Paul II writing in Mulieris Dignitatem para. 30 “God entrusts human being to her in a special way in every situation of her life”.
Continuing to my third and final point, having a Down Syndrome child gives new life experiences to oneself. Undeniably, taking care of a Down Syndrome child has never been an easy task, but there are tons of new things to be learnt from it. For example, maybe life doesn’t always have to be so perfect in order to be happy. Another mother of a Down Syndrome child, Janine Steck Huffmann said this according to her own experience, “He has taught me a lesson I still work through everyday – that the value of life, a human, a child is not measured by how much he or she can accomplish, but by how much he or she can teach about what really matters”.
In conclusion, a Down Syndrome child is also a human being. Plus, it is a parent’s responsibility to take care of the child. Furthermore, new experiences can be gained from a Down Syndrome child. Therefore, I am certain that although aborting a Down Syndrome child may seem like the easy way out, it is certainly not the right thing to do. THANK YOU!
Credits to: kathrynlynardsoper.com