Showing posts with label ethics. Show all posts
Showing posts with label ethics. Show all posts

Monday, October 05, 2009

Gender.. A problem..?

"Nowadays, I believe love is just love. There is no need to taint it with questions of whose body is loving whose body. Or whose identity is loving whose identity. And you can say as much about one's race, nationality, or religion."
--- The Star, StarMag, Sunday 4 October 2009 --- by James.


*does it matter whose hand is whose?*






Sunday, August 23, 2009

Bus Incident

Oh, there is this story that I want to share.
It's about these two people on a bus - let's call them X and Y.
Then, Y saw this old lady boarding the bus.
Y then asked X to give up the seat for the old lady.
X however, argued with Y on why should he give it up instead of Y.
Y then answered because X was on the outer side of the bus which makes it easier, plus, X is a guy compared to Y who is a girl.
X still refused to give up his seat because he clearly doesn't want to.
Z who was watching the whole thing for 30 seconds(finally came to the conclusion that they both won't give their seats up) couldn't take the whole drama and decided to give up her own seat to the old lady to ease both of X's and Y's the PAIN to get their ass off the seat.
Z did it swiftly and easily without bothering that she herself is a girl and is seated in the inner seat.
What made Z more angry is that X and Y got down at the next stop and can't even stand for the few minutes.
The thing is, if you don't want to give up your seat, don't ask others to do it.
It's still tolerable if you don't want to give up your seat for a more elderly person, but it totally irritates if you argue with others to give up their seat.
Make a change and the world would be a better place.....

Monday, June 22, 2009

Selfish... Really...

Honestly people, please don't be a fishmonger.

In other words: PLEASE DON'T SELL FISH = PLEASE DON'T BE SELFISH!!!

Today I went to the market with my parents. And the market we went is always crowded every single weekend as it is very popular. So, whenever we want to eat, we had to hunt for a place. And today, although we managed to find a table, we were short of one chair for my dad. So, I went to the neighbour table to get a chair since I saw an extra chair:

" Me: Err..Uncle. Is this seat taken??? *smiles politely*

Bloody Uncle: Yeah.. Yeah.. Yeah.. *smiles exaggeratedly like some bitch*

Me: Umm.. But there are 2 seats here. Are both these seats taken??? *I saw only one fella get out to get food*

Bloody Uncle: YeaYeaYeaYeaYea.. It's taken.. It's taken.. *still has that bitchy smile. NOTE: Uncle is a GUY*

Me: Owh.. Okay... Thanks... *walks away* "

Then.. Dad came back from ordering food.. Luckily with a chair for himself to sit. I was thinking "That bloody uncle better be telling me the truth that there's another person sitting there". Then, I turned my head to his direction and saw(to my frustration) he got up from his original place and sit on the chair that I wanted PLUS the seat next to him is occupied by his newspaper!!! ARGH!!! WHAT THE?!?!?!?

I told my mum about it... She said "It's like that one lar.. Kiasu"... OH MY GOD!!! In this crowded market with so many people standing by each table just waiting for a chance to sit down and have their breakfast, please be more considerate and DON'T SAVE THE SEAT FOR A NEWSPAPER!!!

*No offense to real fishmongers. I don't mean it literally. PEACE... I still need real fishmongers for real fish supply*

Friday, January 02, 2009

Abortion of a Down Syndrome Child is Not Right

Good morning to Miss Lee Sa and my fellow friends. Before I continue with my speech, I would like to show all of you a few pictures. These are the pictures of a fetus in a mother’s womb. Now, I would like to ask a question. If this child is diagnosed with Down Syndrome and as a parent of this child, would you abort it? Ladies and gentlemen, this brings us to my topic for today which is “Abortion of a Down Syndrome Child Is Not Right”.

My first reason for saying that it is not right to abort a Down syndrome child is simply because the child is a human. Research shows that 40% of parents terminate their pregnancy when the child is diagnosed with Down syndrome. Does having Down syndrome make the child any less human and thus does not deserve a life on earth? The child is also like any other child and deserves love, respect and dignity. Some of you might say “aborting the child is better than sending him to a living hell on earth as they will not be able to cope with the society”. How sure are you about it? The child is not a marionette where you can gain control with a few pull of strings. You don’t know how he feels. He might want to come to this world and experience the ups and downs of life. Kathryn Lynard Soper, mother of a Down syndrome child had fears of their happiness when her first Down Syndrome child was born. Moreover, his health was unstable. However the more time she spent with him, the more she thinks of him as a cute baby. As his health stabilized and the more she got to know him as a person, she began to be excited that he was there and the fear slowly vanished. She began to have a beautiful experience. If you ask her if she is happy, she will answer you with a resounding “YES!” and adds that we will be happy if we choose to be.

Moving on to my second point which is on the responsibility of parents. Parents should be responsible for their own creation. Every pregnancy has its risks and Down Syndrome is one of them. If you’re not prepared to face the risks, then you should be more careful not to get pregnant. A Down Syndrome child just need a little more attention, patience and effort to take care of. Please do not give the three words excuse which are “not enough time”. Every God’s creation is entrusted with 24 hours a day and if other mothers can do it, why can’t you? For example, a couple in Colorado insisted on giving birth to a Down Syndrome child whom they named Jacob. They never regretted giving birth to him. In addition to that, they are leading a happy and normal life. The couple did try for a second child but never succeeded. They say that Jacob is a blessing and if they had aborted him, they would be left with nothing now. The mother also quoted Pope John Paul II writing in Mulieris Dignitatem para. 30 “God entrusts human being to her in a special way in every situation of her life”.

Continuing to my third and final point, having a Down Syndrome child gives new life experiences to oneself. Undeniably, taking care of a Down Syndrome child has never been an easy task, but there are tons of new things to be learnt from it. For example, maybe life doesn’t always have to be so perfect in order to be happy. Another mother of a Down Syndrome child, Janine Steck Huffmann said this according to her own experience, “He has taught me a lesson I still work through everyday – that the value of life, a human, a child is not measured by how much he or she can accomplish, but by how much he or she can teach about what really matters”.

In conclusion, a Down Syndrome child is also a human being. Plus, it is a parent’s responsibility to take care of the child. Furthermore, new experiences can be gained from a Down Syndrome child. Therefore, I am certain that although aborting a Down Syndrome child may seem like the easy way out, it is certainly not the right thing to do. THANK YOU!

Credits to: kathrynlynardsoper.com

Wednesday, October 22, 2008

Termination of the imperfect

Termination of the imperfect. To me, it means terminating or destroying or discarding the imperfect things that you've done. For example, writing an essay. If it's not good enough or if it has flaws or if it is not up to your standard or it might humiliate you, you will not think twice to throw it into the rubbish bin or tear it off. This kind of act is still ok larh...
Here comes the question, will you terminate your pregnancy when the doctor tells you that the child in your stomach is a Down Syndrome???
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I'm presenting this 5 minutes speech titled "Abortion of a Down Syndrome child is not the right choice". And is doing some research on it. But still not sufficient larhhh... So I would like anyone who come across my blog to help me out. Please don't debate on why it should be aborted. I remembered once when Lynn asked me this question when I was in Form 3 or Form 4.. I can vaguely remember my age. I said it should be aborted and I really regretted my answer. After doing quite a bit of research, i think that it shouldn't be aborted. I have my reasons and I will post the final draft here when my public speaking is over. So, I still need more information and would need your help. It would be a pleasure to have a mother who gave birth to a DS child give some comments and share your experience. xD... I'm talking as if my blog is so popular like that. Nevertheless, thanks to those who helped yarh... ^^

*Nothing is prefect. Just because of its imperfection, does that mean that it's not worth anything???